- Damon
- Pilgrim
- From: enzed
- Registered: 2001-05-31
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Re: So, so quiet!
*grins* seriously, though, I don't think anyone should feel obliged to comment on every hot topic or refute every stupid statement, nor do I think that this should mean that things get much quieter in general. Create the topics you want to discuss; make the community that you want to be a part of.
Damon.co.nz: Where the homeless come to bathe"Pardon me while I have a strange interlude."
- bandit
- Pilgrim
- From: Palmerston North, NZ
- Registered: 2002-11-13
- Posts: 4034
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Re: So, so quiet!
In those cases, I think we should just say, "Eat garnish, pot stickers of evil!"
Well I'm all for it but I find everytime I yell that at people they refuse to make any further eye contact with me. They're all just jealous of my incomprehensible logic powers.
Crow: I think Ray Liotta would make an okay werewolf. Tom Servo: No, he smells like apples. - MST3K
- Jendaiya
- Pilgrim
- From: Canada
- Registered: 2001-06-01
- Posts: 21821
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Re: So, so quiet!
Angelus the Truth Fairy wrote:I hope I`m not one of those you are referring to Betts, but if you are (and I can be tactless in expressing those views and somewhat tardy in the research area)then I do not intend to give offense and won`t take none in return as long as no personal comment is made.;)
People should feel free to express their opinions. People should express them.
The only thing I've been bothered by here is the occasional attitude of, "Your opinion is stupid, uninformed and therefor you have no right to express it nor will I have anything to do with this discussion while you are doing so". It becomes personal, elitist, and that disturbs me. Opinions are opinions, informed or not.
Beauty will save the world.
~Prince Myshkin,
The Idiot, by Dostoevsky
- Damon
- Pilgrim
- From: enzed
- Registered: 2001-05-31
- Posts: 10651
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Re: So, so quiet!
Jendaiya wrote:The only thing I've been bothered by here is the occasional attitude of, "Your opinion is stupid, uninformed and therefor you have no right to express it nor will I have anything to do with this discussion while you are doing so". It becomes personal, elitist, and that disturbs me. Opinions are opinions, informed or not.
Yep, I dislike that distinctly. Have only seen it every now and then, but I've tried to fight it at every turn :)
Damon.co.nz: Where the homeless come to bathe"Pardon me while I have a strange interlude."
- Ren
- Pilgrim
- From: Austin, Tx
- Registered: 2001-07-29
- Posts: 14963
Re: So, so quiet!
Well the Mint wouldn't be so dead if Ya'll posted there more than once a month...8) There's still a few of us hanging out there hoping desperately to have some other than the same few people to talk to every day. Not that we dislike talking to each other but we running out of chatting material too quickly. So c'mon down the bar's always open and soem one is ALWAYS home...
"You know, if you ate more comfort food you'd probably kill less people" - Hurley, Lost
- Ren
- Pilgrim
- From: Austin, Tx
- Registered: 2001-07-29
- Posts: 14963
Re: So, so quiet!
Well yeah but that was at Night! Man Daytime Mint is horrible and I KNOW there are hidden/invisible folks lurking around...drop in say hi! Now and again. I loved, and now miss, the old days when we could fill an entire mint room in a matter of hours. I miss my old mint buds, especially those wacky Aussies I haven't heard from in months. I know people are busy but gods...who wasn't willing to blow off projects for quality Mint time? *grin* But no, ya'll had to go grow up or somesuch. Come back! The mint can still be fun!!
"You know, if you ate more comfort food you'd probably kill less people" - Hurley, Lost
- Ian Johnson
- Pilgrim
- Registered: 2001-06-01
- Posts: 11635
- bandit
- Pilgrim
- From: Palmerston North, NZ
- Registered: 2002-11-13
- Posts: 4034
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Re: So, so quiet!
No problem there: at least you have something to say.
Crow: I think Ray Liotta would make an okay werewolf. Tom Servo: No, he smells like apples. - MST3K
- Rajan
- Pilgrim
- From: In between
- Registered: 2001-06-02
- Posts: 11670
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Re: So, so quiet!
paragon wrote:*grins* seriously, though, I don't think anyone should feel obliged to comment on every hot topic or refute every stupid statement, nor do I think that this should mean that things get much quieter in general. Create the topics you want to discuss; make the community that you want to be a part of.
I think the problem is (at least in my case) that I want to comment on the hot topics, but, as Libbette said, it sometimes becomes too heated for me, or I become too heated, and though I don't have a problem with expressing opinions, people are going to feel the way that they feel and rather than being frustrated I choose not to be.
And I'll also add that recently I find that you can't just express an opinion without several people trying to pick it apart. I know that value of having points and references to back up an argument, but I also find it frustrating when a post is questioned or picked at because of language or because it may not be phrased correctly. I sometimes choose not to because I don't have time to find links that support my position or because I don't have the opportunity to phrase it perfectly. And I've seen people who aren't even taking part in the discussion swoop in to point out the inherent flaws in someone's post and frankly I find that stifling and frustrating.
- Rajan
- Pilgrim
- From: In between
- Registered: 2001-06-02
- Posts: 11670
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Re: So, so quiet!
In other words, I get the impression that some people argue just for the sake of argument and not out of a personal opinion or stake in the discussion at hand.
- Rajan
- Pilgrim
- From: In between
- Registered: 2001-06-02
- Posts: 11670
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Re: So, so quiet!
As for the Mint, I'll just say that the Mint stopped doing it for me a long time ago. That's not a slam at anyone, it's just the way it is...
- bandit
- Pilgrim
- From: Palmerston North, NZ
- Registered: 2002-11-13
- Posts: 4034
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Re: So, so quiet!
How do you argue with an opinion anyway?
"I think this." "No you don't!" "I do too!" "Liar!"
Crow: I think Ray Liotta would make an okay werewolf. Tom Servo: No, he smells like apples. - MST3K
- Jaime
- Pilgrim
- From: Wilmington, NC
- Registered: 2001-06-01
- Posts: 11441
Re: So, so quiet!
Muffin the Vampire Baker wrote:I agree that people shouldn't be afraid to voice their opinion nomatter how unpopular they think it'll be.
YEAH! *raises fist*
The only time I really shut up is when I know I'm gonna open a can of whupass on someone and it's the type of person who'll take refuge with the "I'm so persecuted!" bullshit. I'm a temperamental cantankerous wench, but I don't hold grudges. Argue with me and I'll still love you in the morning. Be a crybaby, and I'll write your phone number on fifty bathroom stalls.
No, just kidding. :)
Really, I respect people who can hold up their end of a discussion, even if it gets heated, and if you don't want to participate for whatever reason, that's fine too. It just steams me up when people (and I've see this in EVERY forum or mailing list I've ever been in) jump into a discussion and then start whining because it doesn't go the way they want.
I don't want people to feel that they aren't welcome to contribute their opinion. As long as everyone plays fair, let's rock n' roll.
Yield to temptation; it may not pass your way again.
-- Heinlein
- wiked
- Pilgrim
- From: the land of ice and snow
- Registered: 2001-06-01
- Posts: 7490
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Re: So, so quiet!
immm persecuted.... just cause people get scorched by the radiance of my general wonderffull ness, they complain, bitch bitch bitch, just cause they cann hope to be like meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
i personally i am specially proud o my humility....
Slave of the lizard king
Master of the esoteric arts
He's exciting in a "here come the Magyrs" kinda way
- rimmers
- Pilgrim
- From: vienna
- Registered: 2002-04-29
- Posts: 3251
Re: So, so quiet!
well i donīt think that things are alltoo quite (from the amount of new topics generated, just look into the community section). itīs just the absence of a certain board member...
i think the number of "regular" members that join in a few times a week (or daily) has neither increased nor decreased. of course, itīs not even 50% of the board members who actually post at all...
@ Paragon
please, donīt forget the "u"
or simply Rimmers :)
[ October 19, 2002: Message edited by: Rimmers ]
- rimmers
- Pilgrim
- From: vienna
- Registered: 2002-04-29
- Posts: 3251
Re: So, so quiet!
Kev wrote:As for the Mint, I'll just say that the Mint stopped doing it for me a long time ago. That's not a slam at anyone, it's just the way it is...
understandable. the mint, in the beginning, was a great idea (and got even implemented into the story!), so that it was different from the usual chatrooms, which i donīt like at all). but it was never the place for deep thoughts, and that hasnīt changed. a place to hang around and meet the other smarchers, when nothing else is to do. so the mint has no actual function or something like that. i donīt like to hang around in the mint all the time, but now and then it is fun, not to mention the funny typos ;)
and again, itīs the absence of a certain board member...
- Damon
- Pilgrim
- From: enzed
- Registered: 2001-05-31
- Posts: 10651
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Re: So, so quiet!
Rimmers wrote:please, donīt forget the "u"
Perhaps I should take the Bandit-tack and deliberately mis-spell everyone's name.
Or not. Sorry - I'm always getting that wrong :)
[ October 19, 2002: Message edited by: paragon ]
Damon.co.nz: Where the homeless come to bathe"Pardon me while I have a strange interlude."
- MoP
- Pilgrim
- From: Brisbane, Australia
- Registered: 2001-06-01
- Posts: 6019
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Re: So, so quiet!
I don't have the time to post much anymore. I've got just under 4 weeks until my thesis is due, then up to 3 exams in the week after it is due, then a week of getting shitfaced and generally trying to erase the agony of this year from my mind after that so I won't be around much for at least 6 weeks more. I check in every couple of days, but when I do it's usually only a quick browse.
I've lost all interest in online debates, not only at smarch but everywhere. It's probably a cross of my general level of apathy when I'm online for enjoyment and also that I have my opinions and I don't feel I should have to hold them up to the light for everyone to examine, pick apart and dismiss with casual disdain. (I'm not saying it would happen all the time but I've seen it enough times around the traps and learned my lessons). I just don't feel like I have the energy to join in the discussions around here anymore.
I'm hungry
- Libbette
- Pilgrim
- Registered: 2001-06-29
- Posts: 13412
Re: So, so quiet!
Renfield wrote:Well yeah but that was at Night! Man Daytime Mint is horrible and I KNOW there are hidden/invisible folks lurking around...drop in say hi! Now and again.
That's when we antipodes sleep, dude.
- Libbette
- Pilgrim
- Registered: 2001-06-29
- Posts: 13412
Re: So, so quiet!
Also, I want to add that while everyone's entitled to their opinion, some opnions will change / affect the way I think about people, whether I want to associate with them and how much respect I have for them. Not the "strawberry icecream is better than bubblegum" kind of opinions. I will have as little as possible to do with people who are sexist, or racist, or homophobic, for example. Those things can all be called opinions, but I'll be damned if I'll put up with hearing about it.
- Ian Johnson
- Pilgrim
- Registered: 2001-06-01
- Posts: 11635
Re: So, so quiet!
I don't think there are any sexists, racists or homophobes here. The only places I've seen sexist, racist or homophobic opinions expressed is at specialist boards and on newsgroups.
- Libbette
- Pilgrim
- Registered: 2001-06-29
- Posts: 13412
Re: So, so quiet!
Well, I consider racism to include believing that the lives of citizens of one country are somehow worth more than the lives of citizens of another.
But I was mostly just clarifying a point about opinions, and people's rights to have them.
- Ian Johnson
- Pilgrim
- Registered: 2001-06-01
- Posts: 11635
Re: So, so quiet!
Well, I consider racism to include believing that the lives of citizens of one country are somehow worth more than the lives of citizens of another.
Was this in one of the War on Terrorism topics? I haven't been participating in them. Too exhuasted.
- Libbette
- Pilgrim
- Registered: 2001-06-29
- Posts: 13412
Re: So, so quiet!
Basically, yeah. And it hasn't been said implicitly, but that's the idea that seems to be coming across. Anyway. I've stopped responding in those topics.
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